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Wednesday, August 4, 2010

What makes a guy a whore?

I know what most peole consider to be wrong about women & their sexual partners but what about guys??  Their sexual encounters are pretty high up there sometimes.  What # is too many & would it bother you to know what your partner's # is?  How about being with a guy with a higher # than you (especially if you have had 0)?

I never used to think it would bother me any but the truth of the matter is, that there's always a part of you that thinks, "he's been with x & I've only been with x, did we get into this too soon?  Will he expect something from me b/c of his past relationships".  When I met my husband, I had 0 so to know that he had been with say less than a handful, I was shocked that I'd bug me so much.

I learned to deal with it but I want to know what others think.

3 comments:

PartyOf3 said...

Have you guys noticed that a man can have x sexual encounters and it is ok for them? I will write my thoughts later I am watching Santi and he is all over the place.

Stephluvscoffee said...

@PartyOf3 yep I have noticed that also. I also don't know what number makes a guy or a girl a whore but I agree with CriminologyNerd that the double standard is BS! Hypocrites indeed...

LifesaBee said...

I think it's machismo!!

Unfortunately, our daily lives are still influenced by that way thinking.

It's all bs I tell ya!